Cat Got Your Tongue? — Meaning, Usage & Examples

What it means...

A teasing way to ask why someone has gone quiet — usually said when they’re too shy, embarrassed, or speechless to respond.

When you ask ‘cat got your tongue?’, you’re gently pressuring someone to speak up.

It’s lighthearted and often said with a smile.

Use it when…

When someone goes unusually quiet and you want to draw them out
When someone is too shy or embarrassed to respond and you tease them about it
When someone is caught off guard and has nothing to say for themselves

Don’t confuse with...

"A Penny for Your Thoughts"

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A warm and genuinely curious invitation to share what someone is thinking

"Bite Your Tongue"

—

Deliberately stop yourself from saying something you want to say

"Cat Got Your Tongue?"

—

A teasing question when someone is unusually or unexpectedly quiet

Where you’ll hear it

You’ll hear the "Cat Got Your Tongue?" idiom in real life — at work, in relationships, or in the media.

Work & Business

Meetings

When no one responded to the manager’s challenge, she looked around the room and said, ‘What — cat got your tongue?’

Relationships & Social Life

Family

His little sister smirked and asked, ‘Cat got your tongue?’ when he couldn’t explain why he’d broken the lamp.

Media & Everyday Life

TV Shows / Movies

The journalist leaned in and asked, ‘Cat got your tongue?’ when the politician refused to answer the question.

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Use it like this

Here’s how to use "Cat Got Your Tongue?" idiom naturally in real conversations, with real examples.

Work & Business

Meetings

Boss

No one has any feedback on the new proposal? Cat got your tongue?

You

Actually, I do have a few thoughts. Can I share them now?

Relationships

Arguments

You

I asked you a simple question. Cat got your tongue?

Partner

I’m just trying to think before I say something I’ll regret.

Everyday Conversations

Joking / Sarcasm

Friend

You’ve been staring at your phone for five minutes without saying a word. Cat got your tongue?

You

Sorry! I just got some news I’m still processing.

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Last updated:

April 20, 2026

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