So rude or wrong that nobody can accept it.
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Completely unacceptable by any normal standard.
When behavior is beyond the pale, it has not just gone too far — it sits outside what anyone would accept.
A pale was a fence marking the edge of a settlement, and beyond it the community's rules no longer applied.
"Hit Below the Belt"
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Attack someone unfairly in a sensitive spot
"Rub Someone the Wrong Way"
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Bother someone without meaning much by it
"Beyond the Pale"
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Outside the boundary of acceptable behavior entirely